lifes simplicity

so often we as individuals over think absolutely every intricate detail of our lives. we try super hard to make sense of situations in our minds, that we somehow end up confusing ourselves.  we worry over things, that at the end of the day, ultimately wont matter. ten years down the line you are not going to remember who said what, and people will forget mistakes you made. everyone is trying so hard to put on an act so that they don't come across in a negative light to others, that no one is actually paying attention to what you do. so the sooner you can forget about them (and stop caring about what other people think about you), the quicker you can move on and start living your life. happy.

as my blog entry says. happpiness comes from knowing who you are.  once you find your passion, and feel a sense of purpose in your life you will be happy. and until such a time comes, you are going to find yourself in this place. a place full of confusion, an exhuasted mind from trying to overthink things and ultimately a sense of an unfullfilled life which can only lead to a lack of confidence and self esteem.

so i say stop. stop over analysing what people have said, stop overthinking what people do. your mind has the ability to bring amazing things into your life, if you only give it the chance to be still and do so.  find a passion. surround yourself with things you love, people who inspire you, activities which make you happy. dont try too hard to control your thoughts, for when you do that it'll never really work. it's going to happen without you even realsing. and then you are going to look back and wonder how you even managed to have such negative thoughts in the first place. trust me. you just need to stop thinking so much, and just be. be optimistic and positive.

life is simple. what you give out, you get back and your thoughts become who you are, so start thinking positively, you will be a better person for it.